Friday, September 05, 2008

Using Facebook more lately...

So I finally got sucked into Facebook recently and have been enjoying it for connecting with old friends and as a nice diversion from all the work-related stressors. Because of it, though, I am ignoring my "home base" blog - My Turn on the Couch - and my mobile blog - Centropolis

That is until Six Apart's Blog It Facebook app.

With it, I can now update my Facebook statues, as well as my blogs, all in one fell swoop.

Which is what I am doing now.

I anxiously await an update to Blog It that will allow posting of pics and such, as well as more thorough HTML WYSIWYG posting features. Until then, Blog It will suffice and save time.

See you around!

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Saturday, July 26, 2008

Bye bye Treo... Hello Centro..

Well, it's been about a month now, but I finally traded in my Treo 700p and grabbed the Palm Centro as soon as Verizon started carrying it. I had been holding out for any of the new phones coming out at the end of the year with Google's Android OS, but got to thinking, "I KNOW Palm OS. I KNOW how to tweak it. I KNOW my 8 years' worth of software." And since I had heard nothing but praise for the Centro (as opposed to all the trashing of the 700p, myself included, after the first few months of release until they FINALLY came out with a firmware update), I decided to consider it even though it was the same old tried and true Palm OS. Then I figured out with my upgrade discounts and data discounts and a mail-in rebate, I would get it for free. SOLD!

And I tell you, I couldn't be more pleased with it!

So I will be updating my links to the right to include some of my new "most favoritist websites" dedicated to the Centro...

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Thursday, July 24, 2008

Testing out CellSpin

I am testing out different mobile blogging alternatives... This is CellSpin.

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Sunday, July 13, 2008

New phone skin for Treo/Centro... Aurora

Just got into skinning a bit recently as I tweak my new blue VZW Centro... this is a skin for the phone app using the Skinner program:



It's my first, so be gentle...LOL... but it matches my blue Centro well and the background bitmap matches my wallpaper used elsewhere throughout apps on my Centro... If you like it, you can find it at treocentral.com...

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Sunday, July 06, 2008

Everything feels flat now...

Two hour drive to the airport in Birminghan. Didn't even turn the radio on.
Just stared at the road and drove.

The airport used to be one of my favorite places. The ultimate people
watcher place. Today I just kind of stared blankly at the floor.
Eavesdropping on the myriad conversations around me used to be a favorite
pasttime in the airport. Today I'm just kind of in my own world, oblivious
to the conversations that now seem so inane. So trivial. So UNIMPORTANT.

Everything just seems drab and gray. I guess this is what it feels like
when you're awoken in the middle of the night to be informed your
father-in-law has passed away suddenly, and barely 10 hours later you'rein
an airport waiting to fly and see him. To try to be that rock for my wife
and sons who were already there for vacation. To try and make sense of
this. I'm jealous of him. Right now he's dancing with Jesus, and we're all
stuck here.

Carl, we're gonna miss you. Put a good word in with Our Father to take care
of your girls...I'll do my best, but life without you is going to be hard
on them all.

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Thursday, July 03, 2008

Great little tweak for Gmail/Firefox 3 users...

I'm still not sold on Firefox 3 yet, as it seems to be an even BIGGER resource hog after a while than FF2 was (I thought FF3 was supposed to fix this... idiots.)... however, for those that have upgraded to FF3 and are primarily Gmail users, mailto: links have always sucked. It always tried to take you to your "default" email program (even if you didn't use one). But now with this tweak you can identify Gmail as your default email handler in FF3 so you can now just click on those email links and go straight into Gmail rather than having to go through the pain of coopying and pasting the email address into Gmail yourself. Small price to pay, but still inconvenient... I haven't got all MINUTE, ya know...

Anyway, here's the link to the explanation and tweak...

Firefox 3: Set Firefox 3 to Launch Gmail for mailto Links

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Thursday, June 26, 2008

...and people don't think there is a Holy War coming...

Pictures from a protest march on London.... does this not scare you? Are we supposed to be "tolerant" of such language? In today's world, I guess these kinds of comments are "okay"...See the pattern that is developing? Just look at my last three posts. No I am not some loony (tho my friends say otherwise...LOL). I just see the state of our world becoming more and more unstable and chaotic... scary indeed.


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Wednesday, June 25, 2008

We're already here...

First, look at the post just below about the state of faith and truth in America today. Then look at what God has to say in Roman 1:18-32. Listen to truth. We need to understand that there IS a Truth. That Truth is not relative. That Truth is not fluid and changing depending on the culture or the times or the circumstances. Truth is everlasting and unchanging. If we are not careful, we will stray so far from Truth that we will forget what it looks like. And when we do, we're on own on. Folks, we're here already.

18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.

21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.

24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

28Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. 29They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; 31they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.


Listen. Please.

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Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Multiple roads to the same (eternal) destination? Nope.

I am sorry. But to me, this is just sad. I know to most people in our culture this is a win - "religious tolerance" they say. I say it is a sign of a sinful world warping The Truth to the point that such consciousness is seeping into our churches, our faith. I truly believe that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God. And in John 14:6, God clearly tells us the one way to salvation:

Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

Living a good life is a wonderful goal. Giving to charities is nice and commendable. Being nice and considerate to others is great. But none of this leads to Heaven. Faith in God and belief that Jesus Christ is the Son of God who was sent to earth to die for our sins as an atonement sacrifice - the perfect lamb - is the only way to salvation and Heaven. All of these other things SHOULD happen as a result of our faith and acceptance of Jesus Christ - an outgrowth of our faith - but do not in themselves constitute faith and a "ticket to Heaven."

The reason why the Body of Christ is becoming less relevant in our culture - indeed being overtaken by our culture - is because we are buying into Pluralism (i.e., multiple sources and routes of salvation, religious "tolerance"), buying into Secular Humanism (i.e., to each his own, if it feels good do it, etc.), buying into Moral Relativism (i.e., there is no "truth", truth is relative to the individual and circumstance) within our own faiths and churches. Why do you think that those that profess a faith and are regular church attenders look NO DIFFERENT from people without a faith. Divorce rates, infidelity, and so on are just as rampant in the church as out of the church. It is because we have bought into the secular worldview. This is in direct contradiction to what our faith is SUPPOSED to teach us (see II Corinthians 5:17):

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation: the old has gone, the new has come!

Of course Christians are not perfect - we make the same mistakes as others because we (all) are sinful creatures. However, we ARE expected to repent of our sins and TRY to live as Christ-like a life as possible. We are to love everyone, care for everyone, be concerned for everyone. But that does not mean we are to be the SAME as everyone. God clearly teaches us this, prepares us for a time like this, warns us of a time like this... Check out Colossians 2:8:

See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.

...or even Colossians 2:20:

Since you died with Christ to the basic principles of this world, why, as though you still belonged to it, do you submit to its rules...

So, are we in moral decline in this world? Absolutely. Are people's faith being warped by our culture? Yes. Are we standing in the gap to fight against the teachings of this culture? NO!

Wake up people.

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Thursday, June 19, 2008

Another IM conversation... condensed.

Our house in summer...

Headgamer says:
hope your day ends up not as hectic as usual...

FPA_Kelly says:
right........printing yard sale signs, rummaging through the house/attic for more stuff, frantically printing out yet MORE bills for [patients] who need them immediately.......typical day for me.

Headgamer says:
I know

FPA_Kelly says:
In addition to reading over my TURN curriculum for next week during which I will be teaching PreK again and the curriculum/games are geared for 3-5th graders, so I've got some work to do there too. As well as trying to get a packing list going for Oklahoma. But amongst all of this, I'm just sitting around eating bonbons and watching Oprah.

Headgamer says:
What's on Oprah today? LOL

FPA_Kelly says:
Obama.

Headgamer says:
And Tom Cruise.

Headgamer says:
You truly amaze me sometimes with everything you can do...

FPA_Kelly says:
yeah, but half-a$. nothing is done well.

Headgamer says:
I know you are busier than I am right now so I will leave you alone...

FPA_Kelly says:
you have no idea.

Headgamer says:
no I don't.

FPA_Kelly says:
I've got to have some doors on my office. Mitchell comes in screaming while I'm on the phone and I have to run to the bathroom and try to talk. Then he bangs on the door....it's horrible!!!!!!!!

Headgamer says:
that may be my project while y'all are gone...

FPA_Kelly says:
This is nothing new. He always does it. Sometimes I have to just hang up and try again later.

FPA_Kelly says:
I can get no work out of the boys lately. We need to talk about another plan because the chore chart is not working. I just told Luke that it saddened me that they weren't going to get to do anything this summer because they were not making any money off their chores.

Headgamer says:
yeah I was thinking the same thing

FPA_Kelly says:
He goes, "We're about to." I go, "About to what?" "Make a bunch of money. In the yard sale."

Headgamer says:
they are going to be SO disappointed with that whole thing.

Headgamer says:
ok... so do they leave the house to play without doing their stuff?

FPA_Kelly says:
well that's the thing. they don't really have stuff to do. do they put their dishes away, yes, do they feed the dogs, yes, do they brush their teeth, yes. They forfeit the reading sometimes to play instead. The TV is not on, connor's DS is put away, they just play outside, which is good. It's just that the bathroom is always trashed, their personal items are all over the place. I am literally either glued into this chair or at my little corner in the kitchen. I never go anywhere else or do anything else. It's pitiful, actually. I can't monitor them fully.

FPA_Kelly says:
I am always making koolaid, spaghettio's, PB sandwiches, etc.

FPA_Kelly says:
putting the password on Mitch's computer constantly because it keeps feezing up and he needs it rebooted.

Headgamer says:
maybe I take the password off?

FPA_Kelly says:
no.

FPA_Kelly says:
between the ever-changing schedule I have to stay on top of, the children always asking for stuff........by the way I just headed off Connor with a butcher knife going outside.

FPA_Kelly says:
Said he had a great idea!

Headgamer says:
oh my gosh

FPA_Kelly says:
Cutting up a cardboard box, taping pieces together....something about making a sign for the street and this infamous yard sale that is going to make them billionaires.

FPA_Kelly says:
It's this kind of stuff, Sean. You have absolutely no idea the minute-to-minute issues that need attention.

Headgamer says:
no I don't.

FPA_Kelly says:
It's not like in the evening when it's just "get your shower, brush your teeth, go to bed"

FPA_Kelly says:
The come in a dozen times and go, "Mom, do you have any tape?"

FPA_Kelly says:
I go, "You guys sniff out any tape I ever buy for this house and then don't put anything away. If there is tape, you have it."

FPA_Kelly says:
"Mom, do you have a Sharpee marker?"

FPA_Kelly says:
"No, remember, you have all the Sharpee markers."

FPA_Kelly says:
"Where did I put them?"

FPA_Kelly says:
Connor was outside in his church shoes, no socks and shorts earlier becuase he was too lazy to look for the last place he put other shoes.

FPA_Kelly says:
They don't care about anything except the current moment in time. They do not see the importance of anything else.

Headgamer says:
I know...

FPA_Kelly says:
I don't know why they keep asking for these items that I have nothing to do with. I tell them the same thing............oh, Connor just came in again asking if he could 1)spray paint the top of a purple bin, and 2) use the saw to cut the big piece of wood in our garage?

FPA_Kelly says:
He's still coming in looking around and begging for some kind of signage at the end of our street. Still wants to spray paint the easel, a giant top of something.........

Headgamer says:
good grief.

FPA_Kelly says:
I gave him a piece green posterboard and he said he was going to spray paint letters on it. I told him that would be a mess and that I would print him out some letters. he said no, he was just going to write on it with a Sharpee. I told him...........he's back.

Headgamer says:
CRAP!!

FPA_Kelly says:
I told him his writing is not very good, but he insisted.

FPA_Kelly says:
I'm telling you, it's constant.

FPA_Kelly says:
Constant in and out, constant

FPA_Kelly says:
'Mom can I"

FPA_Kelly says:
Mom do you,

FPA_Kelly says:
mom where is.

FPA_Kelly says:
I want to run away or do something I love but i have no where to go and nothing i love anymore.

Headgamer says:
I have to admit mom used to say the same about me during the summer... in...out...in...out... would tell me outside and stay outside... give me a pitcher of water and lock the door.

FPA_Kelly says:
In the meantime, I have to adapt some VBS curriculum, plan a birthday party for an indetermined amount of guests I keep waiting to get from you, and pack in my head for Oklahoma.

FPA_Kelly says:
you are going to your meeting at church and you are taking the kids to church and registering them for TURN while you are there.

FPA_Kelly says:
I will stay in my prison because that is all I know how to do anymore.

FPA_Kelly says:
I'm not throwing myself a pity party, it's a fact.

FPA_Kelly says:
OK, so you were in and out during the summer. I bet it wasn't every 10-15 seconds because I've got 2 boys doing it, not one. And I bet you didn't come in to ask her a ton of questions and try to cut your arm off with a knife or saw. Or rummage around in every stinkin drawer in the house looking for must one more scrap of tape or paper somewhere.

FPA_Kelly says:
I gotta go, Mitch is in freak out mode about a toy.


This is how it goes in our house year-round, but especially through the summer. Kelly has so many spinning plates in the air it is unbearable at times. Pray for perseverance and patience and energy for her... pray for growth in consideration and responsibility for the boys to help her out or at least not hinder her... and pray for being more proactive in helping her out for me...

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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

The warped logic of Scientology from an insider...woah.

Ran across this running through my newsfeed. This is a multipart video interview with the actor Jason Beghe (IMDb profile here) who was a long-time devotee of Scientology. He has since realized that the beliefs of Scientology are "dangerous" and has left the fold. This is a series of video documenting the thinking, planning, and "theology"/philosophy of Scientology and L. Ron Hubbard, or "LHR", as he calls him. I always knew Scientology was "out there" and warped in what it espoused and taught people, but geez... this stuff takes the cake.

I especially enjoyed part 3 of the video... the one that blames Hitler, rape, pain, all sexual problems, and the Salem Witch Trials on "psychs," or the psychiatric community (psychologists, psychiatrists, and the pharmaceutical companies) - of which I am a part, btw....


Scientology: Jason Beghe Interview Pt.1 from Mark Bunker on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Pt 2 from Mark Bunker on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Part 3 from Mark Bunker on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Part 4 from Mark Bunker on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Part 5 from Superrodan on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Part 6 from Mark Bunker on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Part 7 from Superrodan on Vimeo.


Scientology: Jason Beghe Part 8 from Superrodan on Vimeo.

With this, Tom Cruise, Scientology, Oprah and her New Age "New Earth" crap she is now promoting (Google it to see what I mean), I feel the divide between Christians and the rest of the world widening and becoming more violent and oppressive. Scary.

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Friday, April 18, 2008

Treadmill? Nah! I'll take the 300 thread count sheets!

(Taken from this article at Foxnews.com...)

To all my friends who do the biking thing... jogging... lift weights... aerobics... Tae Bo...whatever.

I'll take sex over them all!

I found this article very intriguing. It seems that scientific research has repeatedly confirmed that "good sex in a healthy, stable, monogamous relationship can only better our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being." (their quote, my emphasis...)

Here are the benefits that the article mentions:

  • Weight loss and weight control. Forget torturing yourself with the latest fad diet or hours on the elliptical machine when you can burn about 200 calories in 30 minutes of sex! Lovemaking lends itself to improved strength, flexibility, muscle tone, and cardiovascular conditioning. Plus, there’s something super sexy about getting to sleep with your very own “personal trainer.”
  • Pain management. Forgo popping a pain killer and opt for something a bit more “au naturel.” Sex has been shown to offer migraine and menstrual cramp relief, as well as alleviate chronic back pain thanks to the endorphins and corticosteroids released during sexual arousal and orgasm.
  • Stress relief. Sex impacts the way we respond to stress, increasing levels of oxytocin and stimulating feelings of warmth and relaxation. What better way to unwind from a tough day than sharing its most climactic moment with your special someone?
  • Immune booster. Stop spending late nights at the office. Sex wards off colds and the flu. And sexually active people take fewer sick days, giving the phrase “working late” an entirely new meaning. Bosses, take note.
  • Better heart health. A little bit of heart and soul in the sack should be part of every doctor’s orders when it comes to cardiovascular care. Sex may help lower cholesterol and the risk of heart attack.
  • Increased self-esteem and intimacy. When sex is consistent and involves mutual pleasure, it can increase bonding since the surge in oxytocin at orgasm stimulates feelings of affection, intimacy, and closeness. When spiritual in nature, sex can lead to an even better quality of life and stronger relationship. Is it any wonder that good sexual energy in a positive relationship can make you feel better about yourself, your partner, and life in general?
  • Sleep enhancement. There’s no need to count sheep when sex helps insomnia. Plus, making love sure beats tossing and turning your way to zzzz’s.
  • A better, younger looking you. Sex keeps you looking and feeling younger and, according to some research, may lead to shiny hair, a glowing complexion and bright eyes. This is because it increases the youth-promoting hormone DHEA (dehydroepiandrostone). And feeling more attractive charges your sex life even more.
  • Mood lifter. Sex releases pleasure-inducing endorphins during arousal and climax that can relieve depression and anxiety, and increase vibrancy.
  • Longevity. There is a significant relationship between frequency of orgasm and risk of death, especially with men. Men who orgasm two times a week have a 50 percent lower chance of mortality than those who climax one time per month. The bonus: Living longer also gives you and your honey the opportunity for even more lovin’!
  • Decreased risk of breast cancer. One study of women who had never given birth found that an increased frequency of sexual intercourse was correlated with a decrease in the incidence of breast cancer.
  • Reproductive health benefits. According to at least one study, sex appears to decrease a man’s risk of prostate cancer, and the prevention of endometriosis in women. It also promotes fertility in women by regulating menstrual patterns.
So the moral of the story is: forget paying the monthly gym fee. But I find it interesting that the research seems to show these benefits only healthy, stable, and monogamous relationships. Personally, I feel it is God's way of telling us that his gift of sex to us was meant for marriage, and that if we honor that, he throws all kinds of bonuses our way! Integrity and commitment DO get rewards in this world after all, even if people don't want to listen!

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Sex and our legal system...also known as Bizarro World...

Edited for content. And conscience.

Well, I sat down and thought about it after I read back through this post and all these laws. And as I was reading through them again I started feeling a bit uncomfortable about it. If I profess to be a Christian, should I really be making light of some of these laws? Laws focused on infidelity, bestiality, polygamy, and so on?

Yeah. Just not right.

Granted some of them - the old'timer ones - were funny. But I just couldn't in good conscience keep them on here due to the others that were included on the list.

If I claim to be a man of integrity, maybe I should act like it.

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Wednesday, April 02, 2008

A sample IM conversation about the boys...

Is there anything else that can be said?

Kelly:
seriously, I believe there is something wrong with the children.
Sean: oh geez what now
Kelly: They used to know how to close the door.
Kelly: I remember them knowing how to close the door.
Kelly: All of them.
Kelly: For some reason, none of them remember how to close the door.
Kelly: They remember how to open it and walk through it, but do not remember to reach for the knob and close it behind them.
Kelly: Keeping it locked all the time will not teach them to close the door.
Kelly: It will just eliminate the opportunity to close it.
Kelly: Connor had two pair of shoes at the garage door. 2.
Kelly: Does he put either pair on?
Sean: I am calling for fill dirt and bringing them some work home.
Sean: or a straight jacket
Sean: or a cattle prod
Kelly: No. He walks outside and gets into the van.....not 5 minutes after I said, "What are you doing in the van? Close the back hatch and do not play in the van."
Kelly: I go out to check on everyone and I can't find Connor. I said, "Where's Connor?" Luke says "In the van."
Kelly: I call his name and he opens the van door and goes, "Yeah, Mom?"
Kelly: "I just told you to get out of the van. Why are in the van?" "I had to get my shoes."
Kelly: "Those are church shoes. Are you going to church?"
Kelly: "No."
Kelly: "Then why did you go into the van when I said not to, and why did you put .............crap, now I am literally watching him get the front yard hose and play with it. Be right back.
Kelly: I go, "Why did you go into the van when I said to stay out of the van, to get church shoes when it's not time for church?"
Sean: and he says...?
Kelly: "I didn't know where my other shoes were."
Kelly: "You stepped over them right there at the door, Connor."
Kelly: Apparently they were in the van again earlier today and Luke wanted to lay down in the back where all the extra clothes were from our trip to B'ham.............hang on, got to go tell Connor to stop riding in circles on the front yard grass.........
Kelly: Connor starts throwing stuff in the van at Luke and so Luke starts trying to stick grapes in Connor's mouth, so Connor starts chasing Luke and Luke says he had to make a mad dash out of the van without his shoes and only his socks. So, he has new white socks with nasty dirty bottoms that will never come clean.
Kelly: Do you think God is telling me to write a book?
Sean: yes.
Sean: ABSOLUTELY.
Sean: yes.
Sean: I am already looking at our chat history in text form because I am going to put the transcript up on the blog... might as well put it in book form and make some money
Sean: and I also have Sherian calling around for prices for a trashcan full of gravel
Sean: $15.75 for 1/2 ton of gravel...
Kelly: dirt would be much better. Gravel will just end up all over the whole stinkin' yard and injuries will result from throwing handsful of it at each other.
Kelly: Oh, Luke was also wearing his church shoes too, BTW. When I asked why he said his school shoes have dog shit all over them from Sam's yard.
Kelly: I said, "Oh, well. Too stinkin’ bad. Walk it off."
Sean: I seriously want to find a truckload of dirt. two shovels. bucket of water with a ladle. let 'em work the next two days.
Sean: bread for lunch and supper.
Sean: and a rock to sleep on at night.
Kelly: waste of money.
Sean: no, I want them to fill those holes anyway.
Kelly: I can hear them yelling at each other in the garage through the house...and locked door. They only have one more day of this. Thursday we will be at the office so they'll be vegetables in front of the TV, and then Friday we're gone.
Kelly: Sean, they can't even pick up a piece of garbage, you actually expect them to do some skilled labor?
Kelly: Connor will see some sort of bug or lizard and decide to try to bury it with dirt and chase it all over the yard with shovels of dirt.
Kelly: tell them they have to answer to me when I get home... I am stopping at Walmart and getting toothbrushes and gonna stand over them while they scrub floors. we have GOT to LAY THE SMACKDOWN ON THEM!
Kelly: Luke will just quit and kinda walk around in circles.
Kelly: They haven't been exceptionally bad today, they just do stupid things without thinking.
Sean: ok... I STILL think I am gonna get toothbrushes and make them clean the bathroom floors
Sean: tell them to get their kneepads ready... floor scrubbing time! LOL

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Thursday, March 13, 2008

The Joys of Managed Care...

THIS IS A TRUE STORY

A patient was scheduled for an appointment in February 2008.

Called Blue card eligibility with the three letter prefix NLA which sent me to BCBS of SC.

I spent over 30 min in the BCBS of SC VRU (Voice Response System) trying to obtain accurate, complete mental health benefit information and trying to talk to a representative. The VRU would never let me talk to a rep and it would not give me an option of mental health/behavioral health/ psychological benefits. Only psychiatric which pays at 90% after satisfying a deductible.

After the initial appointment, testing benefits were required so called again morning of 03/13. Spent over 45 min in the VRU trying to get to a person to answer questions that were not given in VRU. Kept saying, “You cannot access the rep until you have received all benefit information.”

I accessed every kind of benefit information there was available including pediatrics and maternity. Asked for a rep and it said, “The office is closed from noon to 1 for lunch. Please call back after 1 PM.” I have never called to verify benefits at a major insurance carrier and been told the office was closed.

With extreme dread and trepidation, I called the BCBS of SC again after 1. Went through the VRU again, including asking for the benefit information to be faxed. Even after getting every stinkin’ bit of benefit information available it would not let me speak to a customer service rep. Kept saying, “You must obtain all available information from the VRU before speaking to a representative.” And then it simply hung up.

I decided to call the patient’s mom and see if she had any additional information that would be helpful. Otherwise I was just going to tell her it was impossible to verify benefit/eligibility/authorization information and I needed her to pay in full at the time of service.

I called work, since it was before 5 and got an answering machine. I called home and got an answering machine and started leaving a message and it cut me off mid-sentence.

I went to the BCBS SC website and selected “Contact Us” but under that screen it only lists Q & A stuff. There is no email, phone number, fax number, nothing in the way of contact information.

Then I noticed that the fax I received from BCBS of SC had the heading of BCBS of MI.

I accessed BCBS of MI website and selected the “Contact Us” section. There was no number, no fax number, no email listed. It said, “Look at the back of the patient’s card for the correct phone numbers.”

Called secretary and asked her to look at the back of the patient’s card. She gave me one that said “For benefits and eligibility call…….” And another that said, “For mental health benefits call…….” I said, “Does it say BCBS of SC or MI or what. She goes, “It said BCBS of AL PPO.”

I called the mental health number and got a recorded message that said, “You have reached Audix. Please leave a message.” Strange. I don’t know what Audix even is.

I called the benefits and eligibility number and got, “This is Sue. Please leave a message.” This can’t be right!! Where is Rod Serling? I must be in the Twilight Zone!

I call BCBS of GA, who paid the claim to see if they have on record who the member's plan is actually with. They do not.

I check the numbers again and make sure I wrote down the right ones. I did. Well maybe, even though I’m using voice dial, maybe I said the wrong number. So, I called the mental health one again. Same thing. I call the eligibility one again and get a person who says “Such-n-such financial services, can I help you?” And I go, “I know this sounds strange, but I’m trying to get insurance benefits on a patient.” She says, “You’re trying to reach BCBS aren’t you?” I go, “Yes! Happy to actually hear another human being’s voice.” She goes, “We are still getting calls for folks looking for BCBS. This is a financial services office, but this is the number they gave us to give out.”

I call the number she gave and I get another real person. Exhausted and angry I go, “I am desperately trying to get benefit and eligibility information on a patient. “ She starts asking me all these strange, unrelated questions. I finally get suspicious and go, “These are not the customary questions asked to obtain benefit information.” She goes, “This is the Human Resources Department for employees of BCBS of TX.” I AM NOT MAKING THIS STUFF UP!!!

I bust out laughing and go, “Do you know how I got your number?” ...and I explain how there is a number on the back of a bunch of insurance cards out there that are a financial services office. The financial services office gives out your number to folks looking for mental health benefits and eligibility for patients with……Gosh I don’t know, maybe BCBS of SC, MI, AL, TX. Who knows?

She says, “Well, here’s the number I have for BCBS of AL.” I call that number and it is for members, not providers and it gives me another number.

I call it and it gives me another number. I call that number and the office is closed….it’s 5:05 in AL.

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Thursday, March 06, 2008

BlogBackupOnline rocks and has saved me....


...from being an idiot again.

When I first started my blog, it wasn't My Turn on the Couch... it was the McKay Wildlife Preserve. Anyway, long story short, I didn't do what I needed to do to save all my posts, and when I switched it over to MTOTC, I lost all my posts. Why couldn't BlogBackupOnline have existed then?! If it had, it would have saved me lots of headaches and some fantastic, world-changing, blog entries. Really, they were, but since they got lost I can't prove it.

Anyway...

With BBO, I don't have to worry about it. Once you get an account, set up your blog with them in your account, and it will automatically backup your blog nightly. Blogger has a catastrophic server crash and lose your blog? Restore it from BBO. Act like an idiot like me and lose all your posts? Restore from BBO.

Up until now they have been free as they are in beta. They are about to go out of beta, but will still have a free service:

Free: 5mb storage
$49.99/year: 50 MB storage
$99.95/year: 1GB storage

Yeah, I know. I thought that too. "Only 5mb storage? That's piddly!" But then I checked my account, and with 139 posts to MTOTC I have only used 721k of space. That comes out to about 964 posts to your blog before you need more space.

The way I see it, BBO is a great little utility to keep me from looking like an idiot and losing all my blog data. And free ain't such a bad thing is it?

Oh, yeah. The link. Here ya go. BlogBackupOnline

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Wednesday, March 05, 2008

...and all of Geekdom raise their chalices in honor...

x446B It's a sad day in Geekdom (and I use that term fondly) with the news of the passing of Gary Gygax the father of the Dungeons & Dragons universe.

Though many see it as useless timewasting behavior and activity for antisocial or asocial pimply teenagers, it represented so much more to those who played the game and vicariously lived in that universe. It represented the never ending struggle of good versus evil, ability to get along and working with others of different races and abilities, of adventure, of living out something bigger than oneself. For those people who DID struggle socially at that time in their life, D&D represented an escape to a world where one COULD have some control and acceptance. But most importantly, for me and my friends at least, it represented camaraderie and some of the best and most fun memories of our adolescence.

Though we have moved on to be doctors, engineers, computer programmers, financial consultants, and so on, we will always have the days of storming the castle, winning our own land and fiefdoms through tournaments, creating our own armies, conquering the bridge over the river Styx, playing all weekend with pizza boxes everywhere and laughing til all hours of the night.

So Elrond, 37th level cleric, Master of the Army of Undead, ruler of Culthaven,  lowers his flag at half mast, raises his staff, and wishes Gary Gygax well in the Halls of Valhalla...

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Sunday, March 02, 2008

So where'd everybody go?

abandoned_chernobyl Since we have been so preoccupied and have been shamedly non-bloggers for the last few months, I decided to try and catch up a bit on the blog and my links. Lo and behold, half of my friends' (the Distractions section) blogs are either gone or so old and outdated that some hadn't been updated since 2006! One had even gone invite only... and evidently I didn't make the short list of invitees...

So, if you see your blog missing from that section, it ain't because I'm mad at you or want nothing to do with you. Instead, it is simply a matter of you not giving a crap about blogging...LOL

Yo peeps of mine out there that do have blogs that aren't on the list, let me know and I will add them...

I am also in the process of updating my other links section to include some blogs and sites I have come to frequent these days...

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Saturday, March 01, 2008

When did I become "that guy"?

GeezerCrossingSo what seems to be a pattern of every Friday night now that I leave my front door light off, the Punk Kid Welcome Committee stops by, politely ringing the doorbell and inexplicably running away as fast as they can. I find myself going to the door, turning on the light, slinging the door open as I whisk my way out onto the front stoop, angrily shaking my fist into the lonely, quiet, night air.

"You know, one of these days you're gonna have to grow up!" I yell out into the snickering night, which is always followed by the muttering of "punk kids..." under my breath as I retreat back into the house.

I just have one question.

When the heck did I become "THAT GUY"?

You know, the one that the neighborhood kids always hated because he couldn't take a joke. The one that seemed to have a scowl of resentment and twisted emotions as the kids in the neighborhood rode their bikes or Ripstiks by the house. The one that the neighborhood kids always picked on because he couldn't take a joke and always had a scowl on his face? Yeah, that guy. You all had one in your neighborhood growing up.

I used to be that punk kid. I used to be the one walking through the neighborhood with friends, randomly picking houses to ring-n-run, laughing carefree with no actual malicious intent. Just a kid being a kid.

Now I'm "THAT GUY." The guy that is always irritable because he is worried about bills that have to be paid. Taxes to prepare for. Repairs to make to the house. Children to raise and herd around the house like cats. Responsibilities to handle. Not tomorrow. Not now. Yesterday. The guy that often finds no time to enjoy life, time with his kids or wife, time to relax and "smell the roses, study God's Word and foster my faith and relationship with Him... and instead chooses to shut down and shrink into a stupor on the couch with TV or the Xbox when time permits at around 10 o'clock at night.

It's sad that this transformation happens. We put it off as much as possible, but for most folks, it's inevitable.

Still, as I think about it, and think about how I used to be and what I have become...

...it makes me want to go ring some doorbells.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Latest McKay Headline: "Smell From Bedroom Makes 6-year-old Vomit"

A few weeks ago a local mother was cleaning her 9 year-old son's room and noticed several holes chewed through the top of his pet hamster's cage. On further inspection, she noticed that one of the holes was large enough through which the small rodent could have escaped. Fearing the worst, she did what every loving mother would do. She violently shook the cage in hopes a small pink nose would emerge twitching from the blue stuffing. Nothing. She began searching for the escapee in hopes the animal was still in sight. However, the only unusual thing she found was a bag of hamster food that has been gnawed open. Realizing the poor animal must has escaped, the mother (who herself was no stranger to escaped hamsters when she was a child) hung the water bottle on the outside of the cage hoping Spot will find the water source and stay alive long enough to be found and caught. However, this would not be the case.


A few days ago, a faint unidentifiable odor had been noticed coming from her oldest son's room. While it is not entirely unusual to occasionally be caught off-guard by odors in and around that room, this one lingered. It was decided that the odor must be the result of the family dog having "done his business" on the floor when the boy insisted the small dog sleep in the bed with him a few nights ago. The caring father requested that the source of the odor be found and strongly encouraging the young lad to sniff his entire room. A few short minutes later the boy emerged, proudly announcing that he did not in fact, smell anything that could be identified as dog pee.

The next day, the odor had intensified a bit more. In addition, it had taken on a quality one might recognize (if one is the mother of young boys) as old food or spoiled milk. A quick repeat search again revealed nothing.

Today, however, as family members woke and bedroom doors opened, it was noted that the odor had evolved, mutated, and grown into something terrifying! This was an odor that was no longer invisible and quiet. No, this stench rose up and spoke, if not audibly, "I WILL NO LONGER BE IGNORED!" It hung in the air and permeated the home with a presence that sent the weak running for their very lives. The father confronted this loving, caring, mother with the estute observation that the odor had the quality he described as a "dead animal smell" and suggested, out of earshot of the children, that it could possibly be the remains of the rogue hamster. He suggested she aggressively search, discover, and eliminate the source of this unwelcome visitor. He then kissed her good-bye as he and the older two boys left for their day. Blinking from beneath the cover, she swore she saw a small smirk on his face as he headed out.

A few minutes later, this mother reluctantly got out of bed, walked quickly past the green fingers she swore she saw reaching beneath the closed door to her oldest son's room, and ran down the stairs to fix herself some tea and oatmeal. Very soon after, she heard her youngest son emerge from his room, groggy from sleep. As he stood at the doorway to her office he proceeded to cough, retch, and vomit. Although he denied having a stomach ache, he continued to moan, groan, and rub his stomach throughout their homeschool lessons for no apparent reason. Afterward, he went to his room to draw.

It was then that the mother decided it was time she prepared herself for the real battle for the day. No, the battle wasn't with the mom calling for the 20th time refusing to pay her bill for psychological testing for her son done almost a year ago. No, it wasn't with the foreign salesman who calls three times a day trying to sell generic toner cartridges by the case. It wasn't even that ever looming question that plagues every mother every day of...WHAT AM I GOING TO FIX FOR DINNER TONIGHT!? No, those wars had been waged and victory had been claimed...for the day anyway. This battle was for the restoration of olfactory peace in her home. Armed with carpet cleaner and brush, high-powered vacuum and attachments, Febreeze, several Walmart bags (what would mothers do without Walmart bags?), and a very, very long handled spoon, she approached her foe.

She created a makeshift mask by pulling her shirt over her nose and mouth and forced her way into the room. Behind her she heard a slamming door as her young son protected the sanctity of his room. It was then that she realized the same thing he had known all along but was most likely too scared to tell her. "THERE'S SOMETHING IN THAT ROOM THAT IS MAKING ME FRO-UP, MOM!!" With window thrown open and ceiling fan spinning, the search was on!

As the bed was pulled away from the wall, and with an almost anticlimactic ending, there lay Spot. As the menacing, angry, green fog was sucked out to Jefferson Place to torture another family another day, the only thing the mother felt was sadness. Oh, if only it had been an old, dessicated, moldy piece of peanut butter sandwich, or a bulging cup about to explode from the gas-producing bacteria in a remnant of curdled milk. She lowered her "mask" and with spoon in hand, scooped the small, furry, not quite stiff animal into the trusty Walmart bag.

She sprayed and brushed carpet, vacuumed, Febreez-ed, and fanned the whole room all the while thinking about Spot and how she wished the animal had found the water bottle. Determined to just let the memory of the beloved pet go silently from the house like the smell out the window, she decided to keep the day a secret. The boys walked in from school and up to their rooms. A few seconds later she heard a loud voice coming from upstairs. "Who's been in my room?" The mother just smiled a small smile and fought a tear and said, "It was me, Sweetheart. I was just doing some cleaning."

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